Hey man,
I understand that your wife does not like to give oral, which is why you are here. Don’t worry, I’m sure you can change your mind with some simple psychology. I will give you some simple tips for her to give you a blowjob, even if it seems impossible at the moment.
What you have to learn is what motivates her to give blowjobs in the first place. It’s the “what’s in it for me?” question that is spinning in your head. If you know how to do that “Why?” BIG enough, she will start giving you oral herself, so you never have to beg for a blowjob again. I’m sure you can make your wife ENJOY giving you oral, even more than having sex. That’s how.
a) As I said, understand what motivates you. I’ll save you time to research this and get to the point. When a woman is REALLY attracted to you, when she feels like she WANTS and most importantly, NEEDS YOU in her life, she will go to any lengths to please you, including passionate and regular oral sex. That is why your first step in being more oral with your wife is to become more attractive to her. Exercise, earn more money (start a business), achieve higher social status, and behave more confidently. Let her feel confident in everything you do. Trip. Get more power and you will get more oral sex from your wife.
b) When you do what I mentioned in section a), she will love you and need you more, and then the “Why?” it will be bigger for her, so she will naturally feel that it is not just her duty, but her NEED to satisfy you with good blowjobs. Another thing you have to do to get your wife to say something oral to you is to connect the positive feelings in her head with the BJs.
There could be something from the past that kept her from blowjobs in general. In case she gave you regular oral before you got married or just more serious, and now she doesn’t, it’s because you took her for granted and started behaving with less self-confidence. You got lazy. At first, she could feel how much you wanted her and you were doing your best to satisfy her in bed too, but not now. Not as much as you used to. Remember, you must give first. When you give him an amazing oral, he’ll feel like he owes you. Not only that, but she will also see you as more valuable and more worthy of her making the effort to satisfy you.
Over time, this will make her ADDICTED to giving you oral sex.
c) Now that you understand a little more about what motivates a woman to give you blowjobs, I have to tell you about a simple persuasion tactic. You will get more orality from your wife when you make her feel BIG when you have her lips and tongue all over your penis. When you get her down, moan loudly, compliment her, tell her how good she feels, look at her in fascination. When you have an orgasm, snuggle up after, smile, laugh. Reward your wife after she did something you love. I know this sounds like training a dog, well, it’s just not a dog, it’s your wife, but the principles are still simple. We are all animals, in a way, after all. After a while, she will create a positive connection in her brain about giving you oral.
“When I give him oral … as a result, I end up feeling BIG later,” so the bottom line is “I should give him more blowjobs.”
