Many people ask the question “What am I supposed to be doing?” My goal is to help you so that you don’t have to ask yourself this question anymore because the answer is within you. All I ask is that you don’t doubt yourself in the process of answering the question that may have been ringing in your head for days, months, or even years. I have come across so many people who spend their entire lives trying to find their way, but can never seem to get to a place of peace and happiness.
The first thing I will say is know yourself because many people will come into your life and tell you what they want to do, what they should have done and are thinking of doing. Many times people get caught up in exaggerating other people’s dreams and goals. This is very true with a husband and wife, which can be very dangerous because it can cause problems in the marriage. Many husbands want their wives to buy into their personal dreams and wives lose themselves in their husbands dreams and goals.
When I coach people, I always say “find out what you enjoy doing because that has a lot to do with the path you’re supposed to be on.” If you stop concentrating on what you enjoy, you will never reach your place of happiness and peace. Whether a person plans to one day get married or remain single, it is very important for them to know themselves because all it takes is one mistake to throw them so far off track that it won’t make any sense.
Finding your passion is one of the most important things you can do because whatever you are passionate about is what you will most likely stick with for the rest of your life. When a person is passionate about something, it shows because he eats, sleeps and breathes what he is passionate about. For example, if you have a passion for painting, that will be reflected in your work and that is what makes people want to buy your work.
If you run into this problem at some point in your life, which a lot of people think, what do I enjoy doing the most and what am I really passionate about? If you can answer these questions, you are on your way to your place of happiness and peace.
