This lesson will teach you all about disqualification. Disqualifying yourself to a girl basically means putting a barrier, a reason why you can’t talk or whatever, between you and a girl. Use disqualifiers right away to make him like you.
Barriers (disqualifiers) are amazing for creating attraction. Go see some romance books, romance movies, or even love sonnets by Shakespeare. in all of them you will find a reason why the protagonists, man and woman, cannot be together.
Barriers also make it possible to “escalate” your interaction with the girl. As an experiment, go out and tell one girl that you want to have sex with her before you kiss her, and then tell a different girl that you’re not going to have sex with her before trying to kiss her. I bet you can guess which one will work and which one won’t.
Make sure the disqualifiers you give can always be overcome in some way. A big disqualifier is telling a girl to never date women you meet in clubs. A not so good disqualifier is telling a woman that you are gay! If you’re gay, she can’t get over that hump. Your disqualifiers should be easy enough for the girls to get past.
When you use disqualifiers, make sure the woman knows you are flirting with her. After using a disqualifier, if she thinks you don’t like her, you’re totally doing it wrong.
Another thing to remember is that once you use a disqualifier, immediately move on to the next topic. Don’t sit down and have a 20-minute conversation about why you don’t go out with girls you meet at bars. Stay on topic only if you want to intensify the interaction.
You can escalate the interaction by combining a disqualifier with some escalating or sexually suggestive comments. One of my favorites is “It’s really too bad I don’t know you well enough to tell you what I’m thinking right now.”
When disqualifying, remember to keep smiling and you may also want to kino or touch her at the same time so she knows she still has a chance to catch you.