In the same way that an animal can be someone’s pet, a man can be in a very similar position. Then, like the animal, he will be almost out of touch with his instincts and it will not be difficult to control him.
The difference is that while the animal will be controlled mainly in the home, the man can be controlled both in the home and in the outside world. When he is at home, he can be controlled by the partner or his/her friend/s, or whoever he lives with.
An object
Once you have left this environment and entered the real world, you may end up being controlled by your bosses and colleagues. In addition to all this may be the control that the government exercises over it.
As for who will have control, you can have a dog or a cat, but even if you do have a cat, you probably won’t have much control over it. If anything, this could be seen as an animal that will have a higher level of freedom and self-expression than he does.
a different being
Unlike a dog, this type of animal will not be fully domesticated and will not be able to fend for itself. So if you were to leave your cat, assuming he has one, for a few days, chances are he can find something else to eat.
That is as long as this cat is free to go out into the outside world. If he had to rely on his hunting skills to find something to eat, it probably wouldn’t last long.
a short period of time
However, although a dog, for example, will have been born more or less domesticated, the same cannot be said of man. This is not to say that he was not born into a family or even a society that was filled with people who were not domesticated.
Even so, the fact that he’s as off as he is goes to show that there must be at least one person in his family of origin who wasn’t. Most likely, during his early years, this person, and with the help of society as time went on, would have played a role in removing the wild aspect or energy from him.
an unconscious process
This does not mean that this person consciously chose to strip the man of the part of himself that would allow him to be his own master, feel alive, express himself freely and protect himself. What would feed this part of him would be his aggression/fighting instinct.
Therefore, with this part of his being out of the way, he is like a male dog that has been neutered. Then he will have the appearance of a man and he will be like many other men, men who have also been castrated, but he will not have access to the drive that many of his ancestors would have had access to.
a destructive impact
But, even though this person might not have consciously chosen to do this, this is what would have happened anyway. When it comes to who this person was, this could have been her father.
So it wasn’t someone he saw in the outside world from time to time who undermined him (although this may have happened as well); no, he was the person i saw every day at home that he did. His father could have abused him in several different ways; there could have been physical, verbal and emotional abuse.
no choice
Since he was powerless and totally dependent during his early years, he would not have been able to do anything about what he was going through. His only option was to disconnect from himself and tolerate it.
Interestingly, your father may not have been in control of himself either, as his partner/wife may have completely dominated him. So he was a domesticated man and the way he treated his son may have allowed him to release some of the tension that had built up from being mistreated by his partner//his wife, the mother of his son. he.
an investment
What this probably shows is that his father and perhaps his mother were more concerned with their own needs. So by having a son who displayed strength and masculinity, one or both parents felt threatened.
The injuries, most of which likely date back to his early years, would have prevented them from fully entering his consciousness by essentially knocking out his son’s aggression/fighting instinct. By beating this side out of him, they ended up with a very docile version of him and were able to mold him into what they wanted him to be.
history repeats itself
Your parents probably went through a very similar process during their early years by parents who were as if not more damaged. Thanks to being in a position of power, they were able to experience vicarious revenge.
Not realizing their own pain, which actually motivated their behavior, they may have rationalized their abuse as being for their own good and providing “discipline.” In reality, receiving the love, support, and guidance she needed to be able to stay connected, and as a result integrate her inner fire, would have been for her own good.
Awareness
Thanks to his own inability to deal with his own injuries and continuing a pattern of abuse that probably went back many, many generations, his son was not ready for the real world. Instead, he was greatly diminished and created to be endlessly victimized by others.
If a man can relate to this and is ready to change his life, he may need to seek outside support. This is something that can be provided with the help of a therapist or healer.
