If you eavesdrop on a group of men chatting over dinner or over drinks, it wouldn’t be surprising if the topic of their discussion almost always leads to talking about women. And just like any standard girl bonding session, men also talk about a list of traits, qualities, and characteristics they look for in a woman.
Of course, there are the usual spiel and compliments about various “hot” women they come in contact with on a daily basis, but then the name of someone really amazing will pop up and you will suddenly notice a universal agreement around the table. . .
This woman seems to be the MOST FASCINATING woman everyone has ever met.
She’s not sexy from FHM, nor is she voluptuous from Victoria’s Secret, yet there is something about her that makes men admire her to the point where the only words they can muster by saying are aaahh. . . and Wow. . . . and ooohh. . . .
So what makes this woman so amazing and fascinating?
I’ll answer that question in a minute, but now I want you to do some research first. I want you to spend a day watching movies or TV shows that involve some of the most desirable and fascinating women in the world. Next, I want you to go buy some men’s magazines while you’re at it to give you a rough idea of what SEXY is. FHM, Maxim, Zoo Weekly, whatever. Now I want you to go to Google and YouTube to continue observing some of the most powerful women in the world.
Can you point out what distinguishes these women from other women? Do you realize that they are not afraid to speak their minds? Do you notice how they seem to fit perfectly into the world? Is it almost as if they do everything with natural grace? Do you notice how they enjoy their lives regardless of what people think of them? Do you notice how they shine with confidence? They feel comfortable wherever they are, it’s almost like they do everything effortlessly. Pay attention to your posture, tone of voice, and body language. . .
Notice how her infectious smile just melts people’s hearts? Now, do you know what makes these women the most fascinating and amazing women on the planet? What do you think that X factor gives them? If I had to describe the only thing that makes women attractive to men, it would be this.
It’s your “SKATING ATTITUDE”.
The key to having an amazing attitude in dating is not changing what you are doing, but changing your attitude towards what you are doing.
You don’t have to be 6 “6 with a voluptuous figure and soft, silky blonde hair to be considered an amazing woman. You don’t need to starve to be considered” beautiful. “It doesn’t even matter if ‘If you’re one of the brightest women and consummate of the planet, nor if your bank account is full of money, as long as you believe in yourself, that should be enough.
Even if you are not as pretty as the girl next to you, as long as you have the best attitude, then you are the best woman. If you are a woman with an incredible attitude. . . He never depreciates himself because he knows that his outward behavior is a direct reflection of his attitude.
You are not socially inept or overly available. You don’t chase, they chase you. You don’t settle for men who aren’t really interested in you. Never beg. You don’t get too attached from the start. You are not pessimistic by nature. You are not needy or clingy. It involves your mind and heart rather than what’s hidden under your pants. You are not a desperate and pathetic emotional cripple. You emerge from any painful and puzzling situation seemingly unscathed with your hair in place and your makeup intact because you realize that these setbacks are absolutely vital to your development.
You don’t “lose it” when your relationship fades, but you LIVE through it to fight another day. You just accept the fact that life surprises you the way it does and there is nowhere else to go but forward. So instead of crying in the bathroom, buy a sexy dress and start entering the dating scene again.
The attitude is CONTAGIOUS. If you develop an attitude of kicking butt, the men around you will also automatically pick up the vibe unconsciously and realize that you are different from the rest of the pack, that you are one of a kind.
If the standard attitude of most women is to wait patiently for men to make the first move, then I suggest you stay away from that old attitude because you are a 21st century woman. So instead of waiting for the cows to come home, leave him some subtle hints so he will “get it” and so you can encourage him to make a move with you. But don’t make it easy for him either, instead, make him work for your number. You joke. You break his ribs. You say what you think. You bother his head a little.
Become a woman with an amazing attitude and I guarantee that guys will not be able to resist you.