Some women do not want to get married and have children. They want to feel loved and appreciated, but they also don’t want to stay with just one man. Or at least not for now. These women are so-called mistresses, who can infiltrate your family and home.
While some women love the feeling of having a stable husband and family, mistresses enjoy the hunt, the fun married men provide, and how they are treated. There are some misconceptions about these women, but today I will present to you 5 reasons why you should not be a mistress:
- he won’t let her – No, despite everything he has been telling you, he will not abandon his family. He may not get along very well with his wife, but that’s what years of marriage, problems, and miscommunication would do. And he definitely will not walk away from his children. He loves his children, although the weekends tire him. Those children are his blood and most likely he wants to set an example for them.
- you’re funny – yes, you may understand and listen to it. And yes, you can enjoy all the fun with it. He takes you to fancy dinners, buys you flowers, and pays attention to you. In return, you take care of yourself and his sexual needs. But he won’t love you. He’ll just come over and dump all of his problems on you like you’re some kind of therapist when you’re not. He will literally talk about all of his problems and expect you to listen and play nice.
- His wife is not the problem, he is – you would think that most men who have a mistress are unhappy because their wives are terrible, scream all the time or are frigid. But more often than not, cheated on women are kind, caring and charming women. The problem is the man, who gets bored or simply runs away from his problems. He might run from you one day too.
- you could ruin a family – Not all mistresses are homewreckers, but just the thought of ruining a family should be a turn off. She couldn’t live with the idea of her children losing their father because of me. Not to mention, this man will never introduce you as his stepmother. you will be nobody
- They might break your heart – while women who have experienced this whole mistress thing, new women can fall for the man. We all know that women are emotionally driven and tend to give 100% when it comes to being happy with a man. When starting a new relationship, even with a married man, you may end up falling in love with him. And he will not return the love.
Being just a lover is not a good idea. You may enjoy having fun and dating, but in the end you are just the other woman or the one who ruined a family. And I’m sure you want something better for yourself.
